Update: Day 1 of AMCLI

2009 November 5
by Fatemeh

Today was the first full day of the AMCLI retreat. It was full of meeting great people, seeing wonderful things, and lots of group learning.

We got a chance to take a tour of the beautiful Rockefeller Brother’s Fund property, on which we’re currently staying. I took some breathtaking pictures of the sprawling acreage and the gorgeous fall foliage. Frankly, I think Oregon’s foliage is better and more vibrant, but a beautiful fall landscape is a beautiful fall landscape–no complaints here.

I’ve been able to meet a few really wonderful people here from all different types of activist channels: Islamic Relief, Muslims Advocates Against Violence, the Ilm Foundation, and more. We were also graciously given training exercises by Jewish Funds for Justice.  Hopefully, I’ll be able to talk a bit more about these amazing people and the work they do when I get some time.

Unfortunately, while I was wrapped up in AMCLI and unplugged from the outside world, tragedy struck the men and women of our country’s largest military base, Ft. Hood. An army psychiatrist shot and killed 12 and wounded 31 in a horrific assault on his compatriots. My thoughts and prayers are with the victims and their families. My Allah give them peace.

Cue Frank Sinatra

2009 November 3
by Fatemeh

I’m in New York City this week for my first AMCLI retreat, and I’m pretty excited about it. Especially because I’m going to meet up with plenty of Muslim Leaders of Tomorrow friends that I met last time when I was in New York.

I’m anticipating great things! They’ve got us scheduled every which way, but I’ll try and sneak in some blog time to let you know how things are coming!

I guess I’m a big-shot writer now, huh?

2009 October 26
by Fatemeh

It didn’t hit me that I had published a book until I saw it on Amazon.

But there it is, friends. My thesis, in academic book form:

FF book

Pretty exciting stuff!

Make sure to tell your professors and university libraries to get a copy!

Nominations for the Sixth Annual Brass Crescent Awards Open

2009 October 15
by Fatemeh

The sixth annual Brass Cresent blog awards are here! The last two years, Muslimah Media Watch has received honorable mentions for Best Group Blog and Best Female Blog–maybe this year we can get an actual award, enshallah.

If you’d like to see my baby up there as much as I would, go here and nominate us!


Wearing hejab, part time?

2009 October 1
by Fatemeh

In JO magazine, Natalia Antonova and I discuss her experiences as a foreign woman who doesn’t wear hejab in a Muslim-majority country:

“I don’t like how the idea of hijab is fixed, as if once you take it on or off, there’s no going back,” she said, when I asked her about what it meant to put it on as a safety measure. “It doesn’t allow for the realities and differing circumstances of life.” We talked about how, beyond being a sign of religious expression, the hijab can function as a “do not approach” sign when one is surrounded by strangers.

Feminist hawk says “What?”

2009 September 24
by Fatemeh

I have been absent for awhile, friends. Many apologies!

The Chesler vs. Wolf dust-up happened immediately on the heels of The Guardian’s series “Can Western feminism save Muslim women?”

Coincidence? Perhaps.

Dripping with irony? You betcha!

But the Guardian series included some very valuable viewpoints, many from Muslim women and Western feminists themselves. I blogged about it over at AltMuslimah.

The Fight of the Century: Chesler vs. Wolf

2009 September 13
by Fatemeh

Phyllis Chesler and Naomi Wolf have gotten themselves into a battle royale over…the veil.

And everyone seems to be concerned what two privileged non-Muslim white ladies think about this subject. Funny, considering Chesler picks fights all the time, and no one seemed to be interested in an actual debate she had with Dorchen Leidholdt a few months ago about Islam and women that was actually informed and somewhat rational.

What’s most interesting about this “debate” is that neither women have qualifications that make their opinions hold weight. Phyllis “Feminist Hawk” Chelser is a notorious Islamophobe, and Naomi’s experience with the veil came from putting on Pakistani clothing (“shalwar kameez”) in Morocco. Uh-huh.

Furthermore, neither of them seem particularly interested in what actual Muslim women who wear any type of hijab think. Natalia Antonova put it best:

The publicity must be pretty good for both Wolf and Chesler right about now … but if I was a Muslim woman watching all of this, I’d probably feel as though I was in a room full of people who were telling me to be quiet when the adults are talking.

I’d say that’s about right.

The not-so-terrible twos.

2009 September 2
by Fatemeh

Last weekend, my baby turned two years old.

Muslimah Media Watch, the website that I founded in 2007, has now been around for two years. It feels like much longer, perhaps three years at least, because this blog has created so many wonderful things in my life, and the site itself has undergone so many changes.

In late August of 2007, I was the website’s sole contributor, writing all the content. It was easier then, because I was in graduate school, and found the website to be a welcome distraction from my thesis or a wonderful place to apply all the feminist theories I was learning. I had found no place for myself mainstream feminist media, and realized how easy it would be to carve out a space for myself in the blog world.

But it was more than that. I knew there were other women like me: Muslim, feminist, and seriously pissed off at being misrepresented. I knew that we might not have much else in common, but I created MMW for all of us.

On MMW’s one year anniversary, I had expanded: six or so contributors and a steady posting schedule.

This year, MMW boasts twice as many contributors and faithful readers. Oh, and a Twitter account and a Facebook page. Our contributors are from all over the globe, helping me to realize my vision of global MMW domination.

Maybe next year.

In the meantime, it is a both a pleasure and an honor to work with my contributors. They are smart, they are fierce, and they are adding their voices to a mounting refusal to be stereotyped or mis-characterized in media.

And I am so happy to be a part of it.

Look, Ma, I’m in the USA Today!

2009 August 20
by Fatemeh

Cathy Lynn Grossman wrote about Ramazan for USA Today; she asks me about the nature of zakat (almsgiving):

Many Muslims choose to give to concerns close to home. Fatemeh Fakhraie, founder and editor of an international Muslim women’s website, Muslimah Media Watch, says, “I donate to my local food bank every Ramadan; some people give (zakat) to the mosque to distribute.”

Hiatus or not…

2009 August 19
by Fatemeh

I’m not very good at just-plain-shutting-up. So when Latoya Peterson of Racialicious asked me to chat with her about an email that was making the rounds and spreading some horrible misinformation about Muslim women and Shariah, I couldn’t help myself.

We get our debunking on at Jezebelread up!